Wednesday, February 11, 2015
Day 3: True Love from a Guy's Perspective
Since I am not a guy I cannot give you the perspective of a guy.
But one of my guy cousins, Austin, had this to say about how to show someone that you love them:
"The best way to show that you love someone is to put them first in all things. This does not simply mean that you cater to their every whim and desire, it means that you help them become a better person. We hear frequently, "Just accept me for who i am," or "I'm fine the way i am," but both of these are baloney. We love people for who they are and who they can become. If you do not allow your spouse/significant other to help you improve yourself and if you are not helping them do likewise then the relationship will stagnant and die. True love is desiring the very best for and out of your spouse."
I love that! Now, obviously, don't get yourself into a relationship with a murderer because you think you can help them improve. That's not what this means. This means that you want the best things for your spouse and you want to grow together.